So have you ever had a dream that felt so realistic, that you actually woke up expecting to actually be in the middle of the action you were dreaming about?
Dreams have always made me think. I had a book on interpreting them when I was a teenager (I know, I was weird). I would wake up every morning and some time throughout the day, look up certain parts of my dream from the night before to see what it really 'meant'. Of course none of what the book said was ever true.
But it makes me wonder. Do we all have the same type of dreams? Do we all dream in color, in black & white or both? Are the same places/buildings/people in everyones dreams every night or are they just completely random and ridiculous? Do they mean anything?
I can't be the only one that thinks about these things.
I feel like at least once or twice a week I am calling Corey to tell him about the ridiculous dream I had the night before. I know he probably gets tired of my stories but I am very grateful for him listening to them, or at least pretending to. (:
Anyway, my dreams are way better than Stephenie Meyers.**For those of you who have fallen off the face of this earth for the past 7 years, she claims that she dreamt the whole Twilight series up and turned it into a BOOK and what is now, a huge ba-jillion $$ movie. **
Ive always wondered if my dreams were 'normal'- if that is even possible. I don't dream about random things. Its like I lay my head on my pillow at night and pick up where the story left off the night beforehand. My dreams are like one huge movie, with a bunch of interrelated parts that I have not come to the end of. I guess you could say it is like tuning into the same soap opera everyday at exactly 2 oclock in the afternoon. There are 4 buildings total that I dream about.
One night, it may be one house, another night it could be another. But there are always the same people and same buildings. Maybe this is my brains lack of creativity or me being to lazy to think of anything else to dream about.
One of the 4 buildings is way older than the other 3. In a sense of the time that it has been built, and in the time that I have been dreaming about it. lts the same 2-story, white house with a single staircase in the main foyer that dead ends into a 'T' for the rest of the house. There are rooms on both sides of the staircase, both upstairs and down. In some dreams, this house may be old and abondoned, while in others it may be very lively with many people in it. It just depends on the "theme" of the dream and where the house is at in the complete 'timeline' of the movie.
Another building is actually a Disney world type thing that is completely under a whole warehouse. It feels kinda like you are walking along the movie set portion of MGM/Hollywood Studios, just indoors.
I promise I am not on any medications nor do drugs of any type! They are very weird indeed. Who knows, maybe one day I will make millions of dollars off of something that just 'came to me' one night while I was sleeping.
Saturday, January 26, 2013
Tuesday, January 22, 2013
What a D*#$!@^!
Have you ever looked at someone and thought "What a complete idiot"? Normally, I am not THIS mean to write a complete blog about someone, but let me tell you what inspired this post.
So I was sitting in the drive thru line at Chick-fil-a (the one on Schillenger). I ordered my food and pulled up, waiting to pay. I still had my windows rolled down and heard the lady in line behind me orders a JBC: Junior Bacon Cheeseburger and some fries with a large coke. HELLO! This is not Wendy's. I felt so bad for the guy that had to tell her the place she was looking for was across the parking lot, their competitor (if you want to call it that). I mean, did the lady just completely not look at the menu, or the building that she pulled up too? Because Chick-fil- a doesn't even remotely look like Wendys. And the last time I checked, Wendy's did not say "Hello, Welcome to Chick-fil-a, May I take your order?", when you pull up to the box. So this left me laughing & saying "What a DUMBASS".
I seriously worry about some people. But sometimes, we just need a good laugh.
So for your enjoyment, some more people that are not the brightest crayon in the box.
So I was sitting in the drive thru line at Chick-fil-a (the one on Schillenger). I ordered my food and pulled up, waiting to pay. I still had my windows rolled down and heard the lady in line behind me orders a JBC: Junior Bacon Cheeseburger and some fries with a large coke. HELLO! This is not Wendy's. I felt so bad for the guy that had to tell her the place she was looking for was across the parking lot, their competitor (if you want to call it that). I mean, did the lady just completely not look at the menu, or the building that she pulled up too? Because Chick-fil- a doesn't even remotely look like Wendys. And the last time I checked, Wendy's did not say "Hello, Welcome to Chick-fil-a, May I take your order?", when you pull up to the box. So this left me laughing & saying "What a DUMBASS".
I seriously worry about some people. But sometimes, we just need a good laugh.
So for your enjoyment, some more people that are not the brightest crayon in the box.
in the news:
http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2013/01/04/jacob-cox-brown-facebook-post-drunk-driving_n_2410163.html?utm_hp_ref=stupid-criminals
&
http://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/teen-brags-youtube-bank-robbery-article-1.1212976
Lastly a video:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y5PEaZv07uw
More to come!
Tuesday, January 1, 2013
Bye, Bye 2012
Resolutions that I fully intend on accomplishing this year:
1. Wean myself off of sodas. I drink WAY too much Coke zero.
2. Travel somewhere that I have not been yet.
3. Stay off of my email/phone/Facebook when I am with family,friends & boyfriend.
4. Find a full time, big girl job.
5. Be more adventurous.
6. $5 rule: everytime I have a $5 bill, put it in the piggie bank.
7. Have more 'me' time. I never do anything by myself!
8. Read more.
9. Take a cooking class. Im tired of my family bragging on how much better Corey cooks than me!
10. Learn to say 'no'. Without regret. or worrying.
So there they are! Hopefully I can stick to them- fingers crossed. Happy New Year everyone!
1. Wean myself off of sodas. I drink WAY too much Coke zero.
2. Travel somewhere that I have not been yet.
3. Stay off of my email/phone/Facebook when I am with family,friends & boyfriend.
4. Find a full time, big girl job.
5. Be more adventurous.
6. $5 rule: everytime I have a $5 bill, put it in the piggie bank.
7. Have more 'me' time. I never do anything by myself!
8. Read more.
9. Take a cooking class. Im tired of my family bragging on how much better Corey cooks than me!
10. Learn to say 'no'. Without regret. or worrying.
So there they are! Hopefully I can stick to them- fingers crossed. Happy New Year everyone!
Wednesday, December 12, 2012
Hey Ho
So Ive been in a kinda mushy mood lately. I think it might have to do with the lack of time Corey and I have had together. Compared to long distance relationships, we see each other a lot. But school and work have killed both of our free time. Our schedules for school and work did not match up well this semester AT ALL.
With that being said, it has given me a lot of time to reflect on who we are and the relationship we have with one another.
In April of 2010, my best friend at the time told me about this "really nice guy" her boyfriend was friends with. The farthest thing in my mind at the time was a relationship since my track record had not been so great. But then she showed me his Facebook ( I know, stalker). Would it be weird to say I looked at his picture and said "that's him"? Because I totally had that moment. All my facebook detective skills told me that he was everything I liked in a guy. I had to meet him. The next weekend a group of us went to the island and the rest is history.
Corey and I have been inseparable since.
I might be a little bias but I think we have the best relationship.
My grandfather has been through a lot of health issues throughout the time Corey & I have been dating. He has never failed to check on my grandparents or come up to the hospital.
Anytime I have been stressed, worried, emotional hes always been there to listen to me & make everything better.
He surprises me. He makes a point to let me know he cares. Hes nice to my dog (bc we all know I wont date someone if my dog doesn't like em :p)
We may not have much or go on dates as much as other couples, but I truly value the time that I get to spend with him.
So this Holiday season, I am extremely grateful to have found Corey. He has shown me how I am suppose to be treated and spoiled me way beyond what I think I deserve.
With that being said, it has given me a lot of time to reflect on who we are and the relationship we have with one another.
In April of 2010, my best friend at the time told me about this "really nice guy" her boyfriend was friends with. The farthest thing in my mind at the time was a relationship since my track record had not been so great. But then she showed me his Facebook ( I know, stalker). Would it be weird to say I looked at his picture and said "that's him"? Because I totally had that moment. All my facebook detective skills told me that he was everything I liked in a guy. I had to meet him. The next weekend a group of us went to the island and the rest is history.
Corey and I have been inseparable since.
I might be a little bias but I think we have the best relationship.
My grandfather has been through a lot of health issues throughout the time Corey & I have been dating. He has never failed to check on my grandparents or come up to the hospital.
Anytime I have been stressed, worried, emotional hes always been there to listen to me & make everything better.
He surprises me. He makes a point to let me know he cares. Hes nice to my dog (bc we all know I wont date someone if my dog doesn't like em :p)
We may not have much or go on dates as much as other couples, but I truly value the time that I get to spend with him.
So this Holiday season, I am extremely grateful to have found Corey. He has shown me how I am suppose to be treated and spoiled me way beyond what I think I deserve.
Thursday, November 1, 2012
Holiday Cheer
"If we all do one random act of kindness daily, we just might set the world in the right direction."
It's November 1st! That means holiday season is about to begin. I think sometimes we tend to forget what the holidays are really for so I have decided to random acts of kindness everyday, starting December 1st, leading up to Christmas. I'm writing this blog a month before hand so maybe some of my Facebook friends will see it & want to join in! Here is a list of things I plan on doing (in no particular order):
- make a care package for someone sick. It's runny nose season & no one wants to take care of themselves!
- bake cookies and give them to friends/family/neighbors
-tape bag of popcorn to redbox machine
- buy someone else's coffee in line at Starbucks
- volunteer at the soup kitchen
-cook soup & grilled cheese for the people staying at the Ronald Mcdonald house
-bring/make someone breakfast
- send a package to a soldier in Afghanistan
- donate clothes to a shelter
-donate dog/cat food to a local animal shelter
-bring flowers to the nursing home to hand out
-treat someone on a tight budget to lunch (Mcdonald's counts!)
- tape candy canes to random places
- clean out/wash/vacuum a family member/friends car without them knowing
-write someone an anonymous letter to brighten their day
-run an errand for someone who has a busy schedule
- be a FRIENDLY driver. don't honk at people, let others out ahead of you, etc
-leave a nice tip while out to eat at a resteraunt
-home make doggie treats. hey! they need a little kindness too
- convince someone to be an organ donor
- write 5 thank you notes for people that have touched your heart
-return grocery carts back in store for shoppers
-offer to help an elderly person load their groceries into their car
-drop off a dozen donuts & "thank you" notes to the police station
-write a "thank you" note to teachers to give on finals day
If anyone else has any other ideas, I would love to hear them! Message me if you would live to do any of these R.A.K's with me. Everything is a lot more fun with a group of people! (:
It's November 1st! That means holiday season is about to begin. I think sometimes we tend to forget what the holidays are really for so I have decided to random acts of kindness everyday, starting December 1st, leading up to Christmas. I'm writing this blog a month before hand so maybe some of my Facebook friends will see it & want to join in! Here is a list of things I plan on doing (in no particular order):
- make a care package for someone sick. It's runny nose season & no one wants to take care of themselves!
- bake cookies and give them to friends/family/neighbors
-tape bag of popcorn to redbox machine
- buy someone else's coffee in line at Starbucks
- volunteer at the soup kitchen
-cook soup & grilled cheese for the people staying at the Ronald Mcdonald house
-bring/make someone breakfast
- send a package to a soldier in Afghanistan
- donate clothes to a shelter
-donate dog/cat food to a local animal shelter
-bring flowers to the nursing home to hand out
-treat someone on a tight budget to lunch (Mcdonald's counts!)
- tape candy canes to random places
- clean out/wash/vacuum a family member/friends car without them knowing
-write someone an anonymous letter to brighten their day
-run an errand for someone who has a busy schedule
- be a FRIENDLY driver. don't honk at people, let others out ahead of you, etc
-leave a nice tip while out to eat at a resteraunt
-home make doggie treats. hey! they need a little kindness too
- convince someone to be an organ donor
- write 5 thank you notes for people that have touched your heart
-return grocery carts back in store for shoppers
-offer to help an elderly person load their groceries into their car
-drop off a dozen donuts & "thank you" notes to the police station
-write a "thank you" note to teachers to give on finals day
If anyone else has any other ideas, I would love to hear them! Message me if you would live to do any of these R.A.K's with me. Everything is a lot more fun with a group of people! (:
Friday, September 21, 2012
Game Day Drinks!
"A darling hat, a cute dress, soon to be a drunken mess."
Its football season & whats the best part of football, other than winning?! Getting shit faced!
I am an LSU fan but my friends & family are die-hard Crimson Tide fans so I thought I would be nice (this time) and post a couple drink recipes for both! Here they are:
Its football season & whats the best part of football, other than winning?! Getting shit faced!
I am an LSU fan but my friends & family are die-hard Crimson Tide fans so I thought I would be nice (this time) and post a couple drink recipes for both! Here they are:
Alabama Fans:
Ala-bama slamma!
2 oz vodka
1 1/2 oz pineapple juice
1 oz orange juice
splash of grenadine
Mix in shaker, pour in shot glass & shoot!
Roll Tide
1/2 oz vodka
1/2 oz Southern Comfort
1/2 oz Amaretto
1/2 oz Sloe gin
orange juice
Pour all liquors in a shaker, fill rest with orange juice. Shake & serve over ice.
Crimson Tide
1/4 vodka
1/4 coconut rum
1/4 raspberry liquor
1/4 blue hawaiian snapps
1/4 peach liquor
1/4 Bicardi 151
1/4 cranberry juice ( I like diet cranberry juice better!)
1/4 7up
Mix in shaker, pour over ice & enjoy!
LSU fans:
Purple Haze
1/2 oz tequila
1/2 oz rum
1/2 oz vodka
1/2 oz gin
1/2 oz raspberry liquor
1 oz sweet & sour mix
7up
Pour all liquors in shaker & fill rest with 7up. Mix together. Pour over ice & enjoy.
Les Is More
1 1/2 oz citrus vodka
3/4 oz creme de violette
1 oz lemon juice
1 tsp. honey
The Honey Badger Cocktail
1 part single malt scotch whiskey
1 part Wild Turkey American Honey
Pour in serving glass. Say "Honey Badger Don't Care!" & take the shot.
Sleepy Gator
2 oz Bacardi Dragon Berry ( I like my drinks strong! You can always use less)
Sprite (I use Sprite Zero to cut calories)
Red Bull
Grenadine
Pour in mixer, shake & serve.
Football Drinks for Everyone
Half Time, Time Out
2 oz vodka
1 1/2 oz pineapple juice
1 oz orange juice
splash of grenadine
Touchdown Tea
1 part vodka
1 part rum
1 part gin
1 part triple sec
1 1/2 part lemon-lime Gatoraide
splash of Coke
splash of orange juice
Pour in shaker, blend and serve.
Thursday, March 1, 2012
Love me or Hate me
Only a few people in my life have been there through thick and thin and have seen me at my worst & at my best. You know who you are and those are the ONLY people that I will allow to judge me, even though I know they won't.
As for everyone else, this is what I have to say to you:
You don't know my past or my future. You have not seen what I have been through, the heart breaks I have encountered or been there when I have been stabbed in the back by girl friends.
You have not seen me go through past boyfriends cheating on me, lying to me, emotionally abusing me or manipulating me. You haven't been there when boyfriends have locked me inside of a house and not let me leave, grabbed my wrist or took my phone away so I could not call for help. You have not seen me cry because who I thought was my best friend, was in reality trashing me behind my back.
IF you knew the type of person that I am, you would know that I don't give up. Yes, I sometimes have trust issues but I think I have every right to be cautious because heart-ache sucks. After being through what I have been through, I think that God has shown me the light at the end of a storm. If my relationship was any of your business, you would know that I do put 150% into it. I do go out of my way to make others happy and I do have faith that everything will eventually work out in the end.
If I had a bad judge of character, I don't think my major would be Social Work. I genuinely want the best for everyone and if someone ever needs my help, I am there in a split second no matter what they have done to me.
I sometimes forgive people to easily but believe that everyone deserves a second chance. But not a third or a fourth.
Most of the time my side of the story is not heard because I sometimes stand up for others before I do myself. But don't take advantage of that and assume that I am a mean person, rude or selfish. I guess this will always cause me to be misunderstood because people tend to listen to what others say about someone instead of getting to know them first.
But to those that have been there, understand this post and know the real me, thanks. Thanks for knowing that I do have a big heart and deserve everything I have right now because I have been through hell and back to get it.
Friday, February 24, 2012
Gatlinburg
" I don't have a red solo cup, but I WILL proceed to party!"
Last Saturday I left for TN & I have to say that this was probably one of the best vacations I have ever been on. It is also the only vacation my whole (well.. most of them anyway!) family has ever taken together. Here's what we did:
Saturday ( February 18)
Corey, Andrew, Dawn, Charlie, Kyle and I left for Chattanooga and after a long, rainy ride, we finally made it to the hotel & ordered pizza. After we finished dinner, we headed to the indoor pool for a few drinks and relaxation.
Sunday (February 19)
We left and headed to Sweetwater, TN to go to the "Lost Sea Adventures". It was deffinately as cool as it sounds. We were lead on a 3/4 of a mile walk throughout a cavern that was once inhabited by Native Americans. We got to see parts of the cavern that held their pow-wows, parts that was the local teenage hotspot before it was purchased by the Government, and another part that was once an underground pub. We then got on a boat and toured the lake that as inside of the the cave. The water was crystal clear & even though it was pretty cold in there, I was very tempted to dive right on in! After our tour of the underground lake was complete, we drove the rest of the way to Gatlinburg and met up with my parents & grandparents and then checked into the cabin. We were happily greeted by snow and all of the 'kids' went outside and had a snowball fight. We partied the rest of the night in excitement of what the rest of the week had to offer.
Monday (February 20)
We woke up to snow this morning! It was gorgeous! After the excitement over the weather had died down, the girls got up early and went grocery shopping for the week. Pretty boring stuff. Then Corey and I drove down to downtown Gatlinburg and explored.
Tuesday (February 21)
After being to Cades Cove 1 million times in my lifetime, I think this was the last time I will ever go there again. For those of you that have never visited, Cades Cove is just a long windy road you can drive down with several cabins, trails and settlements to stop at and explore. You also may encounter deer and bears (if you are lucky). The catch is, to get there you have to drive forever through the national forest. By this point, I was tired of being in the car and over it. Corey and I went back downtown this night and ate at Dick's Last Resort. If you haven't heard of it, the waiters are paid to literally be.. well... Dicks to you while they serve you. Catchy name right? I was very excited about going here but after two salads, two mixed drinks and $60 later, my excitement quickly went away. Plus they give you the option at the beginning of serving you regularly or putting on a show which kind of took the fun away.
Wednesday (February 22)
This was a girls shopping day! I finally got some shoes so now I can throw my old dirty ones away! woohoo ha. Later that night was date night. Me and Corey went into Pigeon Forge and after calling several places and finding out they were closed, we decided to go on a Jurassic Jungle Ride. This thing was horribly animated, dark, and loud. But I still ended up in Corey's lap scared to death. After we went to Wonderworks, or also known as the upside down house. It was so freakin cool! Imagine the Exploreum times ten.
Thursday (February 23)
This was kind of a 'cram everything else you want to do into one' type of day. We went back downtown, had old time-y western photos done (Ive always said I would never do these but hey! It was only $10. How could you pass up a deal like that?:), then we just walked around shopped and ate. Corey and I ate at a place called No Way Jose Cantina and it deff. left me feeling like 'No Way!' After a grande margarita (think 5 servings with the cup as big as my face) and a decent chimichanga/burrito type thing we left and I was feeling so good I had to go home and take an afternoon siesta. Then it was hot tub time and one last game of pool.
Friday (Today)
We took the long 8 hour trip home.
After waiting since September to on this trip, I am sad that it is over. It just makes me excited to see where we will travel next and what adventure we will wind up on.
Tuesday, January 31, 2012
Liquor makes the world go 'round.. and 'round.. and 'round.
Stressful week leads to alcohol on my mind. Im not an alcoholic I swear! :P
So I thought that since I cannot drink while doing schoolwork (any type of alcohol makes me ridiculously sleepy) I will WRITE about alcohol. Here are some of my favorite drink recipes. Enjoy! (:
1. Sleepy Gator
1 part Dragonberry rum
1 part Sprite (I like Diet Sprite.. less calories!)
1 part grenadine
1 part Red Bull
Mix and pour over ice.
2. Hand Grenade ** WARNING: this drink will have you on your ass in no time!**
1 part Seagram's gin
1 part Everclear
1 part Midori melon liquor
1 part Bacardi rum
1 part Skyy vodka
3. Watermelon Martini
1 part Watermelon Pucker
1 part triple sec
1 part Skyy vodka
1 part sour mix
1 part grenadine
4. Voodoo Magic
1 part pineapple rum
1 part banana rum
1 part coconut rum ( I like Cruzan rum! Its cheap but doesn't taste like it.)
1 part mango rum
Add equal amounts of pineapple, cranberry and orange juice.
5. Liquid Marijuana ( Not as illegal as it sounds!)
1 part Captain Morgan's spiced rum
1 part blue Curacao
1 part Cruzan Coconut rum
1 part Midori melon liquor
Pineapple juice and a SPLASH of sour mix.
For the grand finale, Ill throw in one I haven't but am dying to try!
6. Cake Batter Martini
1 1/2 oz amaretto
1 1/2 oz creme de cacao
1 1/2 oz Pinnacle whipped cream vodka
1/2 oz. Godiva white cholocolate liqueur
1 oz. heavy cream
P.S. In case anyone ever wants to buy me a drink, these are in order for most favorite to least favorite! {:
Tuesday, January 24, 2012
Random Thoughts
***WARNING::::: THIS IS A HUGE RANT!!**
Okay.. so this week I have had a lot on my mind. I think I am having a midlife crisis at the age of 22 because I've been thinking of where I am in my life, all my friends, family, coworkers, boyfriend and 'enemies' ( I use this term loosely.. maybe I should say people I don't like or get along with as well as others). After saying all of that, have you ever been in a situation where you just want to tell someone that you know a WHOLE bunch of dirt on them so they better be nice to you? I feel like I am at that point right now. Not because I am a mean person but if this person has continually treated me like S*$@t, then all of the dirt I have on them is on the tip of my tongue about to roll off and into just the right persons ears. Most of the time just the threat is enough to scare that person into leaving you alone but in this case, I really don't think they would care. MAYBE it would do them good. It could possibly be a life changing event.
Then on the other hand, I DO NOT WANT TO BE INVOLVED IN that persons drama. I have enough of my own problems to start up even more. and if I didn't say anything then they can just live in their own misery knowing that what they are doing is absolutely wrong.
There are some people that I don't think will ever change their ways and I just wonder what it is going to take to get them to realize what they are doing wrong. I'm a pretty caring person and typically want to help people in any way that I can but I think in this case, I have given enough. It is not my problem anymore.
All I can do is continue focusing on MY life, MY future, MY education, MY job, My future career and My goals. So what are my final thoughts on this?
REVENGE. IS. SWEET. while karma sucks. So you better be nice to me ;)
Monday, January 16, 2012
Bucket List
I think that I have come to the conclusion that I have too many things I want to do on my bucket list and not enough funds to check everything off of that list in my lifetime. I think I have some pretty expensive things I want to do but hey, a girl can dream right? (:
** not in any particular order
Things I have already checked off of my list:
* Go on a cruise
* Spend the night at the Myrtles Plantation
* Spend Halloween in New Orleans
*Go Camping when its cold and make smores on top of a mountain.
*Find someone who treats me how I should be treated
* Gamble in a casino
* Visit a different country
*Fly in an airplane
*Go to Disneyworld
* Ride a rollercoaster
* Have a picnic on the top of a mountain
Things I want to do hopefully one day:
* get a boob job
*break a world record... even if its for something silly like most amount of times anyone has eaten Jimmy Johns, which I think that one might be possible for me
*Float in the Dead Sea
*Go for a run in Central Park.. running for only 1 minute counts!
* Go in one of those zero gravity things... like in Willy Wonka
*Get married to my best friend
*Learn to play guitar
* Travel the world. Specifically the following places:
- Paris, France (not for the Eiffel Tower, but for the Louvre)
- Germany ( I wanna see castles and drink real beer!)
- Switzerland ( I wanna see all of the hot air balloons)
- Fiji
- Hawaii
- London, England
- California
- New York
- Colorado
- Alaska
- Greece
- Africa
- Egypt
- Ireland
*Watch the sunrise on the beach. Ill need luck to help me stay up that long.
*Have a spa day. and not feel guilty for spending the amount of money that would cost.
*Ride in a helicopter.
*Ride in a train. Preferably like the one in Polar Express.. where they sing to you and give you free hot chocolate.
* Have a baby.
* Kiss under a waterfall
* Go parasailing
* Own an old plantation.. and drink mint juleps on the back porch!
* Go on a safari
* See Machu Picchu
* Visit Auschwitz
* See a Broadway performance
*See the Northern Lights
* Jump off a cliff into the water
* Volunteer at a soup kitchen on Thanksgiving
Friday, January 13, 2012
People That are Hard to Get Along With
Everyone has had to come across some person in their lifetime that was extremely difficult to get along with. It maybe a boss, a friend, a frien-emy, a coworker, a teacher or maybe even that barista you see at Starbucks every morning on your way to work. With all of the different types of personalities out there, not all are going to mesh well with each other.
First there is the Chatterbox:
This one is mainly directed to the girls but I know some guys out there that don't know when to shut up either. I always run into these types of people when I am in a rush trying to get somewhere, when we are slammed at work or in the checkout line at the grocery store. They want to tell you every single detail about their daily routine, what happened to their dog two weeks ago and the latest gossip on someone you have never even heard about.
That leads me to the Gossip:
You know the type of person that likes to talk about every "exciting" new detail that went on today. Who got knocked up, which celebrity got divorced, their neighbor just got arrested for cocaine, Sarah's dad just got caught for picking up a prostitute, Jimmy is cheating on Catherine with Bob, Kyle smoked a joint behind the school before he went to class and the list goes on. Just the thought of keeping track of all of that stuff makes my head spin. Who seriously has time in the day to dig up information like that and tell the whole world? and who really cares? We all have our own problems to deal with.
The Complainer:
GUILTY. I will admit, I sometimes fall underneath this category but cant we all? Whether we are complaining about our job, our parents, something our significant other did, our neighbors etc. something during the day is going to aggravate you to the point you have to find someone to tell about it whether they care or not.
The Delegator:
A.K.A Mr. Bossy. This person thinks they know everything about anything and would make the best candidate to take charge and supervise. They love to tell people how they should do their job or exactly what they should do in a situation. This does not necessarily a boss but someone who doesn't have the authority to tell you what to do. While telling them to shove it may not be the best thing to do, it sure does seem like a good idea.
Last but not least, you have the Credit Grabber:
You know the people that bring the Wal-mart cake to the party but say they stayed up all night coming up with the perfect cake recipe until they finally found that one around 3 am? These people just crack me up.
There are plenty of other types of people that can make your life difficult but I don't have the time to list them so lets fast forward on some good tips I found on dealing with them:
1. Neutrality. Don't bring up anything that could be a sensitive subject or could entice an argument. If it is hard to find something to talk about that wouldn't piss you or the other person off, talking about the weather is always a good one. :P
2. As weird as it sounds, just accept them for the person that they are. Maybe they aren't trying to be difficult on purpose.
3. If there is someone you are pretty much stuck being around for a while, try to change the way you react to them. You obviously cannot change that person but think of yourself as being on their team and not playing against them.
4. Keep your mouth shut! Well, not completely... but refrain from saying hurtful things or attacking the person completely. Think more about acknowledging their behavior than their negative traits.
5. Stay calm. It is better to discuss issues when one or both people are not heated.
6.It does help if you have some one to talk about the situation with and get a second opinion on how it should be dealt with. Chances are, they will see things in a different light which can come in handy with seeing the other persons point of view about your own actions.
7. Excuse my language, but it could be useful to grow a pair and straight up ask the person you are having trouble with, why ya'll are having trouble or why they act a certain way around you. They may not even know about any problems or any of their actions.
8. Don't forget that you are not an angel yourself. Most problems result from BOTH people in a relationship and not just one.
9. Don't think about 'winning' the argument. Think about working through the problems yall are encountering and coming up with a compromise.
10. If none of the above work: take a shot of vodka and deal with it.
Thursday, January 12, 2012
King Cake
I realized this week is the last week of winter break. I'm not too worried about school starting though because I am so tired of sitting around the house
with nothing to do.( <------ Don't hold me accountable for that statement in two weeks because I will probably regret it. )
So to celebrate the end of the break, and Corey's birthday I planned a fun day in Pensacola. We first went to the Naval Air Station Museum which was cooler than I thought it would be, but not as cool as I thought it was when I was younger. The planes were pretty awesome, but trying to fit inside to take a cool picture was not pretty awesome. Those men probably had to weigh 100 pounds or less just to fit. I know it was deff a sight to see while I was trying to climb up a ladder, throw my legs over the side of the plane and slide into the seat that was smaller than my hips. I felt like I was in one of those kid rides that they have in the middle of the mall you have to put a quarter in to ride. This instantly brought back the feelings of regret over the king cake.
Next (unplanned) stop was a lighthouse! Little did I know what we were about to discover. Trying to waste time, we walked up and the house was GORGEOUS. The lady at the front desk asked if we wanted to go up to the top of the lighthouse. My first response was heck no. I wasn't going to pay $5 to climb a flight of stairs. When I say flight of stairs I mean a Mt. Everest height of stairs that only had a rail on one side to hold on to. We decided to take the cheap route and just walk around the house since that was free. It wasn't until we walked down to the basement that we saw a video. Im not the type to watch any of the movies they play at museums but guess what this one was? Ghost Hunters!! It was even cooler that it was the episode of that same lighthouse. I guess I have missed a few episodes. Thats what sold it for me and I immediately walked up to the front desk to pay my $5. Those stairs were just as horrible as they sound,with me having to take about ten breaks on the way up, but the view was WELL worth all of the hard work (plus maybe I burned off some of that cake).
The next part of the trip was pretty generic, eating at Red Robin and then going to the movies to see Mission Impossible.. which we saw in IMAX. It wasn't as cool as I thought the whole Imax thing would be and I don't like Tom Cruise. But the movie was deff. better than expected.
I think this trip was probably the best way to end this winter break. I am so excited for what this semester has in store for me because it just puts me one step closer to graduation!
Sunday, January 8, 2012
Year and a Half
Holy crap! Where has time gone? Since yesterday was mine and Corey's year and a half anniversary I have been thinking about everything we have done so far. When I think about how we met at Dauphin Island, its hard to believe that was actually us on the beach. We went to our first concert the next month and its all downhill from there. That was the night I really began to like him. Against everything Corey says, I asked HIM on our first date and then on July 7th, 2010 he asked me to be his girlfriend. We have done so many things since that day. We have went to New Orleans probably 15 times, Baton Rouge, Lafayette, Biloxi, camping in northern AL, Atlanta (that was an adventure), Pensacola, Destin, Tuscaloosa and Birmingham. Next month we will be able to add Gatlinburg to our map of places we have been to.
I think out of this 1 1/2 year that we have been together, I have had the most fun that I have ever had. It just makes me even more excited to see what the future has in store for us. :)
Saturday, December 31, 2011
Wednesday, December 21, 2011
Holee-days
I just realized that I haven't been on here in SO long!! Since October- and a lot has happened since then.
It's finally winter break and I am just now realizing how stressful and busy this past semester was. I feel like I have time to finally breath and hang out with my friends. I have realized that all of my hard work wasn't for anything. I accomplished a huge goal! I brought my GPA up a whole point. I feel amazing right now and am so proud of myself because it felt impossible.
Speaking of goals, I do think that it is that time of year again to start making New Years resolutions. So.. here they are::
1. Accomplish my resolutions ( I always make them and then forget about them two weeks later).
2. Get back down to a size 4.
3. Take a dance class. Religiously, like I use too.
4. Go Parasailing.
5. Zipline.
6. Save up to move out.
7. Get 4.0 (It was SO easy in high school! what happened?!)
8. Plan a better trip for me and Corey than the camping trip last summer. That'll be hard to top.
9. See Bullet, Framing Hanley, ADTR, Eric Church and Weezy in concert, again.
10. Volunteer.
Hopefully I can accomplish all of these! Wish me luck. Happy Holidays! :} <3
Wednesday, October 5, 2011
Gumbo
None of you probably know this because I try to keep it a secret but my Grandma makes the BEST gumbo in the world. It's so good that Corey and I fight over it. ha I am eating a bowl of it as I write this.
This week has been one of those "thank-God- for- my-friends" weeks. Last week my Mom took my brother to the doctor and they told him that he had strep throat. The next thing I knew, I recieved a text at work Sunday saying that he was being rushed to the ER. Probably in the top 10 scariest moments of my life. He may not know it but my baby brother is one of the most important people in my life.
I rushed to the ER and started freaking out. I. hate. doctors. I hate the smell, the look, the coldness, the medical equiptment. everything. He had a 102 fever and his body was covered head to toe in a rash from an allergic reaction to the amoxicillan. They sent him home with some medication and steroids.
Monday he encountered severe pain and itching from the rash so me and Corey rushed to Walmart and I think I bought everything they had to help ease the pain. Around 3am he had to be rushed to the ER again because the pain was too intense. The docs gave him a sedative to make him sleep it off.
Hopefully all of that is over with. It's not fun seeing someone you care about sick like that, especially in the Emergency Room. Through all of that, I realized what great friends I have. Almost all of the people that I work with called, texted or Facebooked me to see how he was doing. It meant a lot because I know everyone else has so much going on in their own lives so if you are reading this, I thank you for that.
On top of all of that craziness, I realized that this was a big school work week. I had two papers due that I hadnt even started on. One was even a book report for a book that I hadn't even read yet. Thank God for the movies and Cliffnotes :]. Now I have came down with a sinus infection.. surprise surprise. Hopefully these antibiotics kick in soon.
Monday, September 19, 2011
The Swamp
After two weeks of hardly seeing C-rob , we finally got to go on an unexpected mini vacation. Saturday night we were Nola bound and by 8 o'clock we still had not found our hotel let alone checked in. We decided to not go out on Bourbon as we had planned but instead to have a night in and watch Ghost Adventures. We stopped at a two story Target to grab a sandwich and snacks. It was amazing! They even had an escalator just for the buggies.
The next morning Matt and Maghan came down to meet us for the game. Saints won! So we did the most logical thing and went on Bourbon to celebrate. I finally got to have a few of my favorite drinks (hand grenades) and after loosing an intense game of Rock, Paper, Scissors, Maghan rode the whale at The Beach. I really wish they could've stayed that night with us!
After saying goodbye to them we checked into our new hotel- Royal Saint Charles- and got ready to go back out.
Distraction: If you are ever wanting a nice, cheap hotel to stay at in New Orleans, stay at the Royal St. Charles! Our room was only $80 but it was the nicest hotel I have ever stayed in! Our room had a 180 degree view of the city with huge floor to ceiling windows and even a little sitting area. The staff were super friendly and there was even a little coffee shop inside the hotel.
Anyway, we went back out on Bourbon and got a huge Fishbowl ( it's literally a fishbowl with a thing to go around your neck just incase you forget how to work your hands. They fill it with a Hurricane all for $10. If you can handle a refill, those are only $5... this drink is uh-mazing). Since none of the clubs or bars would let us in due to our Fishbowls, we just ended up people watching and walking up and down Bourbon St. Apparently Marie Laveu's Voodoo shop stays open really late so I decided to show Corey the inside since he had never seen it. I ended up buying a ribbon bracelet in which you are suppose to make a wish and then tie it three times on your left wrist. When the bracelet falls off your wrist, that means your wish is about to come true. Now I don't know if this really works, but hey it was only a dollar.
I have been to New Orleans hundreds of times throughout my life and have so far learned the following things:
1. Everyone in the city of New Orleans has at least one thing in common: They LOVE to drink. Drinking starts around 8 in the morning and ends whenever the sidewalk begins to feel as comfortable as your bed back home.
2. The speed limit is not 35, 40 or 50 mph but instead, however fast your car will go.
3. There is no sense of "weird".
4. There is no greater music than Jazz music.
5. Sweet Tea, PoBoys and Beignets are just an everyday thing.
6. You can tell who the tourist are & you can tell who the locals are.
7. You can talk smack all you want against the Saints but once our team beats your team you will immediately regret all the things you said before the game because our fans outnumber your fans. If the Saints lose, its okay, there are always Jim, Jack and Morgan to wipe away your tears.
8. Never ask what that is on the sidewalk. You don't want to know. You probably also don't want to know what that is dripping on your head from off of the balcony.
9. Ghost are sort of like imaginary friends. Nothing scary. Just people who don't pay rent.
10. From a little thunderstorm, to Katrina, nothing can ever take the heart and soul out of New Orleans.
Tuesday, September 6, 2011
Labor Day Weekend
I was really nervous when I saw that a tropical storm was head towards the Gulf Coast during Labor Day Weekend. Not because I hate bad weather but because I had been planning on going to CPR Fest ever since I saw the lineup. Bullet for my Valentine, Seether, Three Days Grace and Avenged... how could I miss that concert?
Even the morning of I didn't know if we were going to be able to go because I heard the streets in Biloxi were flooding and some roads might be closed. Plus I don't like being on the interstate period much less in a tropical storm. It wasn't until Corey said " It'll just be one of our many adventures" and I was convinced on going. We have
never had a bad one so I knew this trip was going to be worth a little rain storm.
We went to eat with my family at Wintzels and then we were on our way. We got to Biloxi around 2 and after seeing the beach I was nervous about having to drive home in that mess. After swimming through the parking lot to wait in line we were finally there and settled for a while. We spent the next 2 1/2 hours people watching and there were some WEIRD people. When I say weird I mean skittle colored hair, fish nets, black bulky boots etc.
They finally opened the doors at 4:45 and we got a really good spot on the floor (I never understood why people come to concerts to sit down). Escape the Fate came on shortly after and I think every single weird or annoying person in that arena decided to stand by us. Once Escape got off state I looked back and realized exactly how many people were behind us.
After the show we were starving so we searched trying to find some place to eat. We ended up sitting in the Wendy's parking lot pigging out on chicken nuggets and frostys. Its moments like these that I realized exactly how much I love him.
Anyway, in the end
Im so glad that me and Corey decided to go because we wouldv'e missed out on a great experience. Hope ya'll had a great Labor Day weekend as well!
Thursday, September 1, 2011
I'm Ray Charles to the BS.
These past few weeks I've learned a lot of things. Like...
1. Mom knows best.
Remember that kid your mom always told you to not hang out with or date? Yeah that kid! and even though JUST because your Mom said don't do it you did it anyway, well... DON'T DO IT. It will save you a lot of trouble, time, and drama in the long run.
2. There is nothing my dog won't eat.
This includes: rocks, toilet paper, pencils (the wooden kind), reciepts, socks, cords, grass, lizzards, dirt, dust, etc.
3. Don't skip class.
It will bite you in the butt in the long run.
4. Be friends with weird people.
It is ALOT more fun. :]
5. Karma does exist.
Last week I decided to not chew out that lady that cut me off in traffic. Instead of yelling at parking services for screwing up my permit registration, I asked nicely. Besides wanting to wish bad things upon someone that did something bad to me, I prayed for them. What did this get me? I went to Regions bank to cash my check, and instead of taking the $10 out of my paycheck- which they normally do because I do not have an account with them-the lady decided to give me my whole check in cash, no fees taken out. This made my day. ( Hey- $10 is a lot of money for a college student.)
6. Relationships are about TWO people.
Not the two people in the relationship, their mother, their cousins, their best friends, their dog, their next door neighbor, or their school teacher. Don't let outsiders influence your relationship with someone. And please, do not publish every single detail about that fight ya'll had last night on facebook, twitter or any other social network.
7. Weezy has the right idea.
He doesn't care what others think. Love yourself and others will love you too.
8. Get your priorities straight.
and stick to them.
9. I feel like my life is being taken over by dogs.
I cannot even take a shower without a bodyguard.

10. Last but not least, watch where you are driving.
I was going down University the other day and a metal rod/crowbar type thing flew under my tire and into a pipe underneath my car. I was pissed someone would leave that in the middle of the road so someone could run over it. Not only that it could've hit somewhere else in my car and my car could've either had a blow out tire, had a broken windshield OR blew up.
Okay, maybe thats a little dramatic but you get the picture.
The end.
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